Thursday, February 7, 2008

Grown Women vs. Girls

Got this in a forward today. Loved it so I decided to share. Enjoy!



Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown Women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls yell at you for not calling them.
Grown Women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown Women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown Women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown Women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown Women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown Women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown Women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes out with her own friends

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown Women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown Women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown Women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown Women know that sometimes the ones you love don't always love you back and move on without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown Women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women.

12 comments:

Tom_Gurl said...

I'm GROWN!!

I pass this on to all you grown women out there!

:)

Tom_Gurl said...

*I'm passing it on like it's my post! lol!*

Tom_Gurl said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Anonymous said...

And let the church say...

Miss Snarky Pants said...

AIIIIGHT!!!!

Sha Boogie said...

AMEN!!! I love that forward, betta preaccch preacher! CHUUCH!

TrinaBeingTrina said...

And can I add Hallelujah!!!

Anonymous said...

Who you talkin to? Baby, I'm GROWN! I have this posted up at the crib. Just in case I slip into lil girl mode and need a reminder!

Chuuuuuch!

Minerva Exertion said...

High Five! I'm a grown ass woman!

Jazzy said...

"Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown Women ignore the bad guys.
" AMEN

Anonymous said...

Love this!!!

Monie said...

LOL @ how many of yall said Chuuuuuch!